Thursday, June 14, 2012

Summer Solstice is officially June 20, but it sure feels like summer is already in the air. Kids are out of school or getting out very soon. Graduations are happening. Warm weather and longer days make the beach and being outdoors so enticing. One of our favorite outdoor summer evening activities is playing badminton in the backyard.

If you're looking for a good summer read, either for a teen daughter or for a little escapism yourself, a great one to check out is Loving Summer by Kailin Gow. It's a contemporary romance with a little bit of edge, tackling a few real issues teens and families face. The Southern California beach setting makes the book a light, fun read as well. Right now when you get it on Kindle, a bonus copy of The Loving Summer Cookbook: Recipes for Losing Weight and Getting Summer Healthy is part of the deal as well!

Speaking of cooking, light summer fare already sounds so good. Add some fresh fruit like mango, strawberries or watermelon to a favorite salad and voila - instant healthy, tasty dish!

What I love about summer is that it's a time for creating fun family memories. Some of my favorite ones from childhood are riding our bikes until it got dark, waiting for our dad to get home so we could go swimming, and, yes, it's an odd one: watching The Price Is Right with Bob Barker. It was the only time of year we indulged in such leisurely television watching.

Get out there and make some summer memories to look back on for years to come!
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Usually the last day of school is cause for celebration. And in our house, we are excited about the summer, vacation time, and all that goes along with it (brief as it is). But it was such a special, memorable school year that it's sad to say good-bye to it as well.

Our son is days away from finishing kindergarten. What made the year so tremendous was his teacher. She is an amazing combination of kindness, compassion, understanding, plus she can discipline when necessary yet never seem upset or frazzled (I volunteered weekly in her classroom, so I know). This has set such a strong, positive foundation for our son and we couldn't be more grateful.

Coming across someone so positive and with such a good impact, especially upon a child, is a blessing. Teachers touch children's lives so powerfully; exceptional teachers are a true gift.

I have seen progress and maturity in our son over the past school year, and I'm excited about the learning he will continue in first grade. But we will always have sweet memories of his first academic year.
Friday, June 8, 2012
My best friend (who lives in London) recently had her second baby. I wish so much I could be there to lend a helping hand. She had an emergency C-section, has had to deal with mastitis, an infected healing site from the surgery and, as anyone who has had kids knows, the non-stop demands of a newborn, all while trying to get well herself and give some time to her older daughter.

Ads related to newborns, babies and toddlers tend to show the sweet side - an angelic sleeping baby, a happy baby smiling up at the camera. Yes, babies are bliss, but they are also a lot of hard work and the first several weeks of adjusting can even cause some tears from the parents (did I mention my friend's baby also has acid reflux, so feeding her is a challenge as well).

I promised her it will get better, and I know it will. She will get back to good health, the baby will outgrow the acid reflux, everyone will get sleep again. I told her how much I wished I could be there to help, and she said just talking about how she was feeling lifted her mood a lot. Sometimes we all just need someone who will listen and who can understand our problems. Moms - let's all band together. No one else can understand our woes better than a fellow parent.


Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Just wanted to share my first guest blog, on a site called Mommy Warriors. It's about competition among young kids (in sports) -- how young is too young to encourage serious competition?
Thursday, May 31, 2012
It's been a while since my last blog. I guess that's how it is when you have a 6 year old, an almost 3 year old, freelance writing and editing work and a website. Moms are a busy bunch.

I have added a lot of new products to Tot-Bot Baby Gifts - all kinds of personalized gifts for babies as well as for new moms, and even some items for the new dad.

I'm really excited about offering organic personalized body suits. These come in super cute owl, monster and baby block themes. A perfect gift idea.

Our jewelry for moms features all kinds of exciting new items - personalized pendants with birthstones, boy/girl name and birthstone necklaces and a girl birthstone charm bracelet. With all of the fuss over the new baby, the new mom is sometimes forgotten. These personalized jewelry items are a great way to wow the new mom.

And let's face it - dads do a ton of work nowadays when it comes to taking care of baby. They're up at night along with mom during feedings, they change diapers, some even play Mr. Mom when the real mom goes back to work. Hats off to all fathers! We just added some fun gift ideas for dad - Daddy Scrubs (for the delivery room and beyond) and I'm the Daddy t-shirts and hats.

I love being able to offer such a variety of fun, personalized baby gifts for this special, unique time in people's lives. If you come across something you think would be great for the site, let me know - email me at info@tot-bot.com.
Friday, October 21, 2011
For anyone with a baby, whether you yourself like Halloween or not, you've got to admit it's irresistible to dress your little one up in an adorable costume (think pumpkin, bunny - babies look cute in basically any Halloween outfit).

I know a lot of toddlers LOVE to play dress up, whether it's Halloween or not. My children do not.

When my son (now 5) was a baby, the lion costume we got him went unused - he screamed when the hood with ears was placed over his head. We had to opt for a plain, t-shirt and sweat pant Batman outfit instead. He has since been a baseball player and a soccer player - fairly normal clothing that didn't feel constrictive. This year he'll be a tiger and is willing to even put a tiny bit of face make-up on. But again the outfit itself is almost like pajamas.

Our daughter (2) seems to be following his footsteps. We got her an adorable yellow Belle dress because she loves Beauty and the Beast. For the last several days I have placed it over her regular clothing just so she will get used to it and not scream when it goes over her head. My hope is that by Halloween, she won't complain when we put it on her, and can wear it at least long enough for a few cute photos.

I love this time of year and it's nostalgic, remembering dressing up as a kid. If your kids love costumes, enjoy the fun of it. If not, get those snapshots as quickly as you can.
Monday, September 19, 2011
When it comes to fussy eating, it is definitely not in the genes. We lucked out with our son. From the time he started eating solids, he tried everything. As a toddler, in restaurants, people marveled that he would taste fish, asparagus - you name it. I knew there were fussy eaters out there; I just thanked my lucky stars that our son was not one of them. As he has gotten older, he is a little pickier about eating. Broccoli looks weird to him, so it has to be hidden in cream of broccoli soup. Still, he is a terrific eater who loves tomatoes, strawberries, oranges, apples - and asks for cucumbers as a snack.

Fast forward a few years. Our daughter is the epitome of a fussy eater. When she was about 9 months old this was not apparent; she would take small bites of banana, eat a little bit of apple, gladly eat yogurt. But shortly thereafter, this changed. The sight of a banana would set her screaming. To get a spoon of yogurt in her mouth I would have to try any means to distract her so she wouldn't know what I was doing. Mealtimes are still often such a struggle. Pieces of food end up on the floor, I feel at a loss as to what more I can offer her. (I do like this helpful article from Dr. Sears: http://www.askdrsears.com/topics/feeding-infants-toddlers/feeding-picky-eater-17-tips).

Once in a while I am pleasantly surprised and she'll eat a fairly balanced meal. But the pureed fruits and veggies of babyhood that I managed to keep giving her into toddlerhood no longer work, and for some reason she won't take these foods in small pieces. Yes, I have tried the suggested hiding methods (making mac and cheese with pureed sweet potato instead of cheese), or offering a potpourri of small foods for her to choose from. Mostly these tactics don't work. Once in a great while they do. I hate to say it, but often, I dread when it's time to feed her. And now I know how other parents of fussy eaters feel.

My husband is much better at keeping things in perspective, noting that she is not the only toddler who is a fussy eater, that she'll outgrow it, and reminding me that she is growing well and, according to her pediatrician, developing terrifically. I, sadly, don't have as much patience. But the next time I'm picking up food thrown onto the kitchen floor, I will remind myself what we parents have to say to ourselves so many times: This too shall pass.

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